I use to despise women who ‘had it all’. Women who ran online courses and got paid for doing what they love! (Am I evil? No just a bit too honest)
You know those women and you know what I bet if you took a lie detector test it would show that you have had at least one of these thoughts too!
So ‘those women’
Don’t you hate them just a little bit?
They are stunning, pretty and kind, sweet and loving. The embodiment of an awakened woman. Financially wealthy and generous. She loves her body and knows herself sexually and intimately!
In life and business, people just gravitate to her. Somehow despite life throwing a serious lot of ‘shit sandwiches,’ her way – she comes out triumphant every single time.
Well I know that woman and for years I loathed her. Jealousy. Envy. Green with envy. I use to spend hours wondering this ‘Holy Crap! Who is she sleeping with or paying to achieve such ‘magic’? (dark secret of mine I did warn you).
And then one day I met her and I was in a slightly different head space. Less judgy and more curious. She sat opposite me at an event (we agreed to swap my chicken for her salmon and we had a ‘moment’). She sat there with perfect shiny hair, white teeth and a smile that lit up the room. Every man and woman wanted to be around her. It was like a bee to a honey pot. She just took it in her stride and I think she even prayed before she ate her lunch.
‘Gosh maybe she is not actually human!’ I thought to myself!
Then I plucked up the womanly balls to ask her (my heart pounding with anticipation at having found the ‘Holy Grail’)
‘What is your secret?’
(imagine the next sentence in an old witch like voice) ‘please my precious…tell me your secret’
She hesitated at first and then said:
‘I have seen you online. I have been following you for years. I can see so much pain in your eyes and so much potential within you. I was you just last year’
‘What changed?’ My voice less witch like now…
‘It is too simple and easy that it wont sound true. You won’t believe me.’ She spoke with such a resonance it felt as if only she and I existed.
‘Please I will believe you’ I said in desperation ‘please tell me’
She whispered 2 words in my left ear and I began to weep. She touched my hand lovingly before she stood up and went to the stage.
‘Oh My God. She is the speaker’
I wept during her talk. I wept because she was the me I wanted to be. She shared about losing businesses and close to $100K. About her best friend and lover dying and how in 10 secs one call changed her life. About the times she almost took her life after her mum died but did not as she ‘loved her son too much’.
I was a mess. Panda eyes big time.
I wept all day. In gratitude to her and because I knew I had been doing life ‘the wrong way’. Not wrong as in bad or silly, just not the best way. I realised how much time and energy had been wasted on all I had ‘lost’.
That day was a ‘drawing a line in the sand moment’
I signed my highest paying client the next day…
Want to know what those 2 life changing words are?
I had to step up to hear them and so my sweet brave woman…So do you…
For now, the only 2 words you need to hear are